Brad Lomenick Talks Developing Credibility
Young and Hungry- What to do?
I talk to leaders all the time, especially those under the age of 25, who are seeking the quick credibility answer. How do I get credibility now and not have to wait until I am in my mid 30’s or early 40’s before people will respect and respond to me?
Well, great question.
Not sure I have the answer you are looking for. But, I have a theory. The Credibility theory.
Starts with an equation, since I was a math minor in college….. Ultimately, credibility is this:
C = T x (E + E). Credibility = Time (times) Experience + Expertise.
To give some context, here are some thoughts to best gain credibility now:
- Listen. Simple enough
- Find those who are smarter than you, and latch on. Learn from them.
- Become an expert before you need to be- when you are asked for your opinion or involvement, give it or do it.
- Self awareness and self identity- know who you are. You are young- deal with it. Don’t think you know more than you really do.
- Stay focused, but broad. Those who have the most credibility no longer are just experts in one area. You need to be a generalist.
- Learn how to follow. And follow really well. It will position you for authority later.
Young guys, SEEK OUT mentors and training! Don't be afraid to ask those you would like to mentor/coach you! Usually (not always, but usually) there are already people in your life who could function in that role. Who are individuals that have influenced you or that you are being influenced by now? Be specific when you ask too, How much time are you hoping the mentor can give to you? What kind of investment are you willing to put into the mentoring relationship (in terms of time and effort)?
Another thing, having a mentor/coach is not just a "young person" thing. I think it's important to always be seeking out those with more "credibility" (in terms of the equation being discussed here than you to assist in your growth as an individual. It fits in with the whole "discipleship" paradigm that Jesus modeled.
But what I’d add is one additional point that has deeply impacted my thinking and that is moral authority. I feel, personally, that the men and women that I deem to have amazing credibility and influence in my life also strive to be completely above reproach in all that they do.
Moral authority takes time, and no matter what I do in terms of web development, etc. I can lose my credibility in an instant if my moral compass takes a turn south.
Let’s spend as much time building our character and moral authority/credibility as we are coding stuff for our ministries.
Anything you’d add?
